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I Have a Choice
A 92-year-old, well-poised and proud man, who is fully
dressed each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed
and shaved perfectly,
even though he is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today.
His wife of 70 years
recently passed away, making the move necessary.
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing
home,
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
As he maneuvered his walker
to the elevator, I provided a visual description of his tiny room,
including the eyelet drapes that had been hung on his window.
"I love it," he stated
before getting there with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old
having just been presented with a new puppy.
"Mr. Jones, you haven't
seen the room; just wait."
"That doesn't have anything
to do with it," he replied.
"Happiness is something you
decide on ahead of time.
Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is
arranged,
it's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
"It's a decision I make
every morning when I wake up."
"I have a choice; I can
spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty
I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
and be thankful for the ones that do.
Each day is a gift, and as
long as my eyes open,
I'll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
~ Author Unknown ~
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